Wonderful tips to Approach the One you have been Eyeing

-

Be Confident
    There may be several instances in your life when you spotted a hot stranger sitting right across the pub and all you wanted to do was to approach them. But, by the time you could gather enough courage and confidence, another person took your chance and left you wondering. But. that was the last time, we promise. Follow our tips to have the right approach towards that hot stranger you have been oggling at.

Do a Little Research
You surely do not want to mistakenly fall for the wrong person. So, ask people around if they know about the person. Look for information about their reputation, personality, etc., so that you don’t have to leave anything to chance.

Ignore Everything Else
Don’t let your inner voice that stops you from approaching them overpower you. Once you have found out that their looks are just a small part of their remarkable personality and there is much more to explore, you must approach them.

Use Social Networking as a Tool
Social networking could prove to be a blessing for you. Find your desired person on Facebook and send them a request. Once they have accepted it, the ball will then be in your court.

Send Signals
Social networking could be a long process and if you just cannot wait for having them in your life, sending signals across the hallway is the right thing to do.

Talk to Them
This could be the toughest part if you do not know what to talk about. Start with an introduction and go on to talk about their interests and if there are any mutual friends that you come to know of, you have hit the jackpot.

 Avoid being Rude
Follow some etiquettes and avoid being rude during the conversation. Remember that getting too personal can also be considered rude at times.

Be Prepared to get Rejected
When you are prepared in your mind about rejection, you tend to become more confident than ever. You have nothing to lose so, give it your best try. If you are disheartened by a rejection, it can cause troubles for you when you make a second attempt.

Comments

Post a Comment

Disclaimer: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the comment writers alone and does not reflect or represent Toprhythm's view.

Popular posts from this blog

Make Your Resume A Breath of Fresh Air

-
Image
 As a job seeker, it’s easy to see hiring managers as big, bad obstacles that need to be overcome. They’re the gatekeepers, after all. But, this kind of thinking actually leads to weaker job applications. Think about it this way: Hiring managers read a ton of resumes —to the point at which their eyes cross. More importantly, hiring managers are just people. With this in mind, the only thing you really need to do to stand out is to have the one resume that actually lets them breathe a sigh of relief during this painful process. Here are simple things you can do. Make the First Thing on Your Resume Immediately Relevant There’s nothing worse for a hiring manager than having to dig through a resume to find what, exactly, an applicant’s relevant experience entails. Don’t make this harder than it needs to be for the person who will be reading your resume, and make sure the first thing on your resume is something you know he or she wants. Are you applying to a sales position? Tit...
Read more

Achieving Mutual Gain in any Negotiation

-
Image
When the parties in a negotiation are committed to a position, they feel that moving from that position is a failure. Instead, the focus should be given to their purposes. To achieve mutual gain, focus should be given on interests, rather than positions. An environment of respect and discipline should be prevalent between both the parties. For example, in a school, one party favours uniforms, the other opposes it. The reasons for the first party to support uniforms is to avoid circumstances where students wear casuals, because it may give rise to an act of bullying where a person or group may act hostile towards each other regarding their individual style.  The second party is against the use of uniforms because wearing a uniform has its own drawbacks. It makes students easily distinguishable to outsiders. It might even cause financial issues for guardians with limited income. In such a case, the solution is to allow students to dress according to a specific dress code. ...
Read more

How Long Should My Resume Be

-
Image
How long should my resume be?” is one of the most often asked questions about resumes. Lately, job seekers were advised that a resume should not exceed one page. Those who broke this golden rule were destined for the circular file. Times have changed, and thus has the criteria for resume length. The new guideline is: A resume should be long enough to entice the hiring managers to give you a call for an interview. That may sound vague, but there is no hard-and-fast resume length rule that works for everyone. Things to consider include career objective, occupation, industry, experience, years of experience , scope of accomplishments and education/training. Resume Format: Keep these factors in your mind when deciding on resume length: Your resume can be a career marketing strategy, not an autobiography. Do your best to keep your resume concise and focused on your key selling points. Leave out the past experiences that don’t market you to your current goal. Every word in the res...
Read more