2016: Your role in making your marriage work.

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Every marriage has its own challenges. The couple must consciously work at surmounting the challenges of their marriage and make it work. Husband and wife should avoid tools enemy uses to attack Christian marriages. Those tools include and not limited to Neglect, Blame, Selfishness, Secrets, Anger, Prayerlessness, Pornography, Financial disputes, Workaholism, Lying, and lack of physical intimacy. From the foregoing, it is cleared that the success of your marriage lies in your hands.

Read: what intimacy can help you achieve in your marriage.
 
Below are useful tips to make your marriage work:
* Good communication: good communication promotes healthy relationship. Be mindful of your speech and communication gestures, posture and tone. If you want your marriage to work, you must know how to choose the right words, gestures, posture and tone when talking to your spouse. Your spouse may be offended by what you say or the way you react. Have your mood under control.

Read: fasting, why should we.
 
* Submission and honour: another tips on how to make your marriage work is to be submissive. This is God's command. Regardless of his character. This minimizes conflicts in the home considerably and promotes peace and harmony among couples. Never compare your spouse with someone else because everyone is unique.
* Maintain a godly home: let Christ be the head, Counselor and guide of your home. Only Him can bring lasting peace and joy there. A Christian home is a good medium for spreading the Gospel. Let strangers, family and friends see Jesus in your life and home. Live a godly lifestyle.

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