There are times when you have to start over again in your relationship...

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When couples first get together, everything is new and exciting. They overlook the little annoying things the other person does. However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, “You look beautiful” they might hear “Why are you wearing that shirt?” If this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place. 
Then together, make a commitment to start over. The truth is, both of you will have to work on this.  It will not automatically be easy but it is possible.  Start by forgiving each other, forgetting  the  past,  and  then  start  over  with  the flirtation. Focus only on the special things your spouse does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside.  It will take some time so be patient.
There are times when you must spend quality time together. It is crucial!  This time can be with friends and family watching a favorite movie. The activity is not what is important but the fact that you are together, doing something that you both enjoy. If you and your spouse had a tradition of some kind when you first got together, dust it off and breathe life back into it. Whatever it was, re- establish the tradition.
Learn from your mistakes.  When something goes wrong and the  two  of  you work  through  it,  do  not  repeat  the  same mistake.  Rather than dive right back into whatever it was you did or said, think before you act.  At first, this will take some discipline but as you see positive results in the relationship, be encouraged that it is working.
Just like men, woman love feeling good about themselves. Find time to: Tell your spouse how handsome/beautiful he/she is, compliment your spouse on many skills (be specific), tell your spouse how much he/she means to you, let your spouse know that he/she is your best friend, most importantly, show affectionate to your spouse in front of family and friends, and lastly, let your spouse know that you find him/her to be sexy.

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